Yeah I've seen a few folks who like the theory that she's "winning" with this. Personally, I have a tough time seeing that in the scene. She looks so gutted and numb and broken. :( I don't see a hint of determination or triumph or even grim satisfaction on her face and Katee's pretty expressive. She just seems kind of out of it when he comes in and grabs her.

Leoben's characterization has always been pretty murky. It's not like he changed his ways at all after that scene, so I don't know... Maybe he was shaken, but it didn't really make a difference I guess. :(