Oh, in this case I will be a valuable asset to the fanarmy, since I Love, no, I adore Kara Thrace, she is the best thing in the show to me and absolutely my pet, while Lee is just Lee, nice guy and great match for her, of course, but still, she is the Queen, while he is just a prince -consort (sorry, to Lee's fans, that's my the first time when I crashed mostly on female, not male character)

I can easily excuse her and explain why she did it to him on New Caprica. But I still mad at him for declining her maybe the boldest move in their relations when she proposed to dissolve their marriages and he refused. And for his passiveness with New Caprica resque mission (for God sake, he even proposed to leave HER and all other people behind and flee).
So, no, I am not "Lee Adama's" girl, but I am totally in love with Kara Thrace.