I see a difference between a storyline being inherently misogynist, and saying that you'd rather see the character doing something else. (incidentally, I'm saying neither! I'm actually bitter that Lauroslin wasn't heading up the resistance, not Kara.)

My points on the other thread were only about bringing Kacey into Kara's life, and whether that marginalizes her into a maternal role. I don't think it does at all.